“Help… I can’t sing!”
I’ve gotten a lot of positive feedback so far about my new book of illustrated hymns. There are some dear Christian souls out there, however, who want their children to learn hymns, but worry that they themselves have a terrible singing voice. “How can I teach hymns to my kids if I have zero musical ability?” So I thought I’d come up with a few ideas along these lines that might help.
1) Sing anyway.
No, really, unless your kids and spouse are covering their ears and wincing, and you’re really worried you’re giving hymnody a rotten name by continuing, just go ahead and sing. Forget about the rude people in your past who have discouraged your vocalizing. This isn’t American Idol. In the privacy of your own home, who’s going to judge you? But if you just can’t bring yourself to do it, then…
2) At least look like you’re singing in church. When you have your kids next to you as the hymns come up (you do have your kids with you, right?), open the hymnal and at least speak or mouth the words if you can’t do anything else. Just keeping the hymnal closed and your mouth shut sends a message to kids that hymn-singing is something to be avoided, or something to be embarrassed about. Encourage them to sing out in church, especially with songs they are more familiar with, and affirm their attempts.
3) Ask your spouse, an aunt or uncle or grandma, or a fellow church member to sing with your kids. Got a “grandma” in the congregation or a youth who occasionally babysits your little ones? Ask nicely if they’d be willing to sing certain songs with the kiddies while you’re out.
4) Let your pastor and Sunday School superintendent know about your desire to teach your kids hymns. There’s a good chance that they’ll be delighted by your input and will have some ideas on how to incorporate this into SS or other church activities.
5) Get some good recordings of hymns and play them around the house. Hymns of Faith by CPH is a good example, and it uses children’s voices.
6) If you can’t teach the music, then teach the lyrics of various hymns to your children, as poetry. Explain to them what the words mean.
Happy teaching! Feel free to add any other ideas you may have in the comments section.

